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Posted by Blair Huff on December 31st, 2007 at 6:22pm
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In August I moved from Central California to Southern Verginia. I moved for several reasons. One was I wanted to get to know my mother's side of the family another was I wanted to challenge myself, at twenty five I was living in the same town I grew up in and wanted some change; but one of the biggest reasons I moved was I hoped I would have a better chance of meeting a godly man and getting married. Of course I did not tell any of my friends or family that this was one of the reasons I was moving, but deep in my heart I hoped that the move would help my chances of getting married.

Now four months later I wonder if I made the right decision. I am homesick and lonely. I miss my parents, friends, and home church. I have yet to find a full time job and it has been harder then I thought it would be to make new friends. I have been debating whether or not I should stay in Verginia. The biggest thing that has kept me hear is the church I have been going to. The people are wonderful, the doctrine is solid, and there are a quite a few single men; but is it enough?

I believe we can tell what our priorities are by the way we live our lives. I know I am called to be a wife, to be an encouragment and help to a God feering man, but how far do I go? I will be twenty six years old in a couple of weeks and need to make getting married a priority, but I wonder where the balence between our actions and God's will takes place.

I have yet to read Get Married ,but I hope and trust it will be a source of wisdom in these confusing times. God Bless