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Rachel wrote: "However, when it comes to "mixed motives" I'd say that running away or even a hardline pause and evaluation period may not be necessary. If you think that you might be called to a ministry and there is relationship-potential involved then rejoice in God's timing and accept it as icing on the cake. I think that the question to ask is "would I participate in this ministry regardless of this guy's presence?" If so, go for it. If not, re-evaluate." Hear, hear! That's an excellent answer. :) I wholeheartedly agree. You really hit the nail on the head Rachel--kudos. :) Reply »
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My friend posted this on another website and I LOVE this quote! :) Enjoy! --Alicia QUOTE: "True Love Doesnt Have A Happy Ending BECAUSE True LOVE Never Ends" Reply »
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You poor girls. :*( My heart breaks for both of you and for other women who have had their emotions and feelings--their hearts, really--trampled like that by guys. I don't know the guy's situations, but it sounds like they were letting their feelings lead them rather than their heads. Meaning, they broke off the engagement because they "felt" like it wasn't the right time, person, etc. instead of thoroughly thinking things through. In love, I believe that it's a mixture of feelings and rationale. Love is not devoid of all feeling, but people shouldn't get married on a mere whim without thinking about the gravity of responsibility that comes with it. It sounds like these guys have learned to equate love with "feelings" of love...which is dangerous since our feelings change day in and day out. Love...TRUE love is mentioned in 1 Corinthians 13--it's much more than feeling. Real love is all about action. "Love is patient. Love is kind. Love....etc." True love makes it through the ups and downs of confusing feelings because there is real and true commitment involved. It realizes that it is committed to the other person, despite how one feels. My parents taught me this. They have been married for almost 39 years and always talk about commitment to one another. I think that that is what has held them together for so long--loving the good in the other person and loving them still through the bad and the unlovely. For instance, what if you blow up in anger one day? (I'm sure us girls are all accustomed to this once in a while...once a month...JK!) lol :D Your husband--your true love husband--will love you through those nasty times as well as the times when you're at your sweetest. :) I know that it's difficult to want to trust guys because you've been hurt so many times...It might be helpful in the future, to look at the fruit in his life before you get engaged again. See if he is living life by his feelings alone or if he truly thinks things through. See if he's more... Reply »

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Posted by Alicia on March 18th, 2008 at 12:13am
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This Valentine's Day has been different than other Valentine's Days. I think because rather than giving into the sad feelings of being single that tried to creep up me several times today, I instead focused on what God is going to do in my life one day when He brings my spouse to me. Whenever I saw two lovers walking arm in arm, rather than getting all mopey like I usually do, I instead imagined that that would be me and my own husband someday (because that is a part of the plan that I believe that God has for my life).
I purchased the soundtrack to the movie Enchanted (one of my fave movies--it's such a "me" movie, lol). I especially liked the lyrics to one of the songs by Carrie Underwood called, "Ever Ever After."
I hope that you will all be as blessed as I was when I read the lyrics--to not be afraid to dream about marriage because I believe that God puts that beautiful desire into each of our hearts.
Enjoy,
Alicia
"EVER EVER AFTER" (Record version)
By: Carrie Underwood
Ever ever after...
Storybook endings
Fairy tales coming true
Deep down inside
We want to believe they still do.
In our secretest heart
It's our favorite part of the story.
Let's just admit
We all want to make it to
Ever ever after.
If we just don't get in our own way
Ever ever
It may only be a wish away...
Start a new fashion
Wear your heart on your sleeve.
Sometimes you reach what's realest
By making believe.
Unafriad, unashamed,
There is joy to be claimed in this world.
You even might wind up
Being glad to be you.
Ever ever after
Though the world will tell you
It's not smart.
Ever ever after
The world can be yours
If you let your heart
Believe in ever after....
And no wonder your heart
Feels it's flying
Your head feels it's spinning.
Each happy ending's
A brand new beginning.
Let yourself be enchanted
You just might break through
To ever ever after.
Forever could even start today.
Ever ever after
Maybe it's just one wish away.
Your ever ever after
(I've been dreaming of a true love's kiss)
Forever ever after."
Posted by Alicia on March 18th, 2008 at 12:12am
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I read this verse that greatly encouraged me and I wanted to share the verse with all of you. It spoke to me deeply and resonated in my heart about looking to the Lord expectantly for all that He is going to do as far as Christian marriage goes and His working out the situation for me to meet my future husband one day. I'm not sure if it's out of context or not, but it spoke to me about my singleness situation and I hope that it will speak to you all too.
Okay, so to the verse! :)
It's Habakkuk 2:3 (NCV). It says:
"It is not yet time for the message to come true, but that time is coming soon;
the message will come true.
It may seem like a long time, but be patient and wait for it, because it will surely come; it will not be delayed."
Be blessed! :)
Posted by Alicia on February 20th, 2008 at 12:06am
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I saw this on youtube the other day and it had me crying like a baby! :) The people have titled it, "The World's Best Proposal"--it's sooo cute! (Especially both of their reactions after she says yes). And what better place than in front of the Castle at Disneyland! After I found this video, I saved it as one of my favorites because it's soo darn cute!!
Enjoy!
--Alicia
Posted by Alicia on February 9th, 2008 at 12:34am
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I was really encouraged by this article that I read in a Today's Christian Woman magazine from the year 2000. It was written by Stephen Arterburn about what "Mr. Right" looks like. It is some really good advice. :) I read the list almost every single day. :) I list it here for educational/learning purposes and to encourage you.
Be blessed!
--Alicia :)
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