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Added a reply Feb 20
Hello Jennifer I am new here just joined last night and I just wanted to say that I am in a similar situation as you and the other Jennifer. I wanted to tell you that you are strong in what you are doing. I was just thinking the same thing today that I need to cut him off completely and not have any communication with him at all. As I read your reply I said to myself that sounds like me, so hung up on him, thinking of him all the time....that is enough already I need to just let it go....and realize that were not together. Thank you, thank you for making it easier for me... Many blessings always Laura Luna Reply »
Added a post Feb 20
Hello Jennifer I am new here just joined last night. I read your post and I don't have an answer for you ither. I am in the same situation. I have been dating this guy for over a year now. Guess you could call what we have dating. I mean I am in love with this guy and he knows it. He knows how I feel and he tells me that he knows what I want but he can't give me that right now. He's not ready to settle down. Due to the fact of his job which he is a paramedic and works alot and has crazie hours. He wants to be financially stable and not living pay check to pay check. Which is understandable. Sometimes I wonder if he'll ever be ready. Is he stringing me along or am I stringing myself along. He has so much going with his life he has no time for me. We don't ever get to go out maybe once in a while to dinner or something. He doesn't call me, I am the one who has to call him. I am the one who looks for him. I think it's more of a needy love than anything, The need to do things to make him happy and do things just to get him to love me back and thinking that I can change his mind and get him to love me but it's just not working I am doing the opposite and making myself misserable because it eats me up inside knowing that I can't have him like the way I want him. I can't make him love me I can't make him do anything he doesn't want to. I sit back and ask myself is that what I really want to make someone else happy instead making myself happy. Don't get me wrong I am sure he does care about me. But it's me that looks for him and I know that I can't change the situation or change his mind. He has his mind made up and he has to want it. I can't make it happen. I ask myself this too do I really love myself enough to walk away from the situation and from something that I can't change and wait on God's perfect timing. Yes it's fustrating believe me I know, my mind goes crazie but that's our way of thinking. You have control of that. I cry, I cry but were only human to cry it'... Reply »
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