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Started by Marlys. Last reply by Sarah 2 hours ago.
What are some of the qualities that can tell you if a guy has potential to be a good husband someday? (Not necessarily to you, but in general) Here are some things I look for, for example: - Biblical view of masculinity/femininity - Willingness to lead in situations - Doesn't get caught up by indecisiveness - Cautious driver (maybe it's weird, but I believe I can tell a lot about a guy by the way he drives a car!) Please add your own list... Reply »
Started by Sarah. Last reply by LaTasha A Jul 27.
I'm not really sure if this question/discussion fits under this topic but I don't really know where to put it...I haven't read Candice's book yet, but I just ordered it so I will soon. I'm really excited about it! Recently I broke up with my boyfriend after dating for a year. He just finished university and I will be done this year, and I've been thinking about marriage a lot lately and its something I really want, specifically with him. He is a wonderful man of God, everything I could ever hope for. However, marriage isn't a priority to him right now. Its something he knows he wants in the future but not anytime soon. That put a huge strain on our relationship, and I decided that if the point of dating is marriage and he's not ready for it, then we shouldn't be dating. I've been praying for our relationship A LOT and whenever I pray I have peace about it. I feel like God has given me so much assurance and confirmations that this is the relationship for me. But I'm not sure if these are just my own desires making it seem like God is talking to me, or if it really is God. I want to put my trust completely in God about this because I think my faith and prayers can bring us through this, and change his heart about marriage. But at the same time I don't want to focus so much on this one relationship while God has something else planned for me. Has this happened to anyone else? Or does anyone have any advice? Is it normal for him to not be ready for marriage? Sorry this was so long! Reply »
Started by Alicia. Last reply by Tafadzwa Gotora May 21.
Dear Lord Jesus, Thank You so much for all of the women who come to this website--who have read or are going to read Candice's book and who are dreaming about being wed one day to a Godly man who belongs to You. I pray that You would prepare their hearts, even today Lord, helping them to prepare themselves as Queen Esther intentionally prepared herself before meeting the King. I pray that You would help encourage and strengthen hearts that have let this dream be pushed down inside of them and help them to dream with the openess and the freedom as they did when they were little girls. I pray for the women who feel ashamed by their dream--those who are afraid to express their desires to get married because they are afraid what people will think of them when they share it. I pray that You would give them confidence and a restored heart--knowing that the dream of marriage belongs to them as much as it does to any other woman like them. I pray for the women who have dated multiple guys, only to end up empty-handed. Lord, I pray that You would restore their dream that there indeed IS someone wonderful out there for them. For them to keep pursuing You with this wonderful dream of marriage and that they would trust in You to bless it. I pray for wisdom, guidance and the right opportunity to meet "the One" that You have hand-picked for their lives. I pray that You would make their paths straight Lord, as they continue to trust in You. Lord, I pray for those that are timid. I pray for those who want to get married but who get all flustered and afraid when they are around a guy. I pray that You would give them the courage of Your servant Daniel in the Bible. That they would know that Your grace is sufficient in our times of weakness and that You are able to help us when we are weak. Help them to rely on You for their strength and confidence. Dear Jesus, I pray for anyone who has lost a spouse and has found herself in the place of being single and alone once again. I c... Reply »
Started by Didi. Last reply by Didi May 20.
Hey girls, I'm new to this site so I don't really know how to start this off. I feel really weird about opening this discussion, but here it goes. I would love it if you all would pray for the man in my life and the men in my friends' lives. Four of us find ourselves in relationships with godly men who seem to be afraid of commitment. I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and he's still unsure of a lot of things. And it's the same for my friends' boyfriends - one in his twenties, one in his thirties, one in his forties and one is fifties. I'm sure you know some men like we do. Knowing that little bit of information (and that we love these men), please pray with me that the men in our lives and the men in your lives would seek God fervently and humble themselves before Him. Also, pray that God would (1) direct their paths, (2) show them that "the man who finds a wife finds a treasure, and he receives favor from the Lord" (Proverbs 18:22), (3) speak to them and remove their fear and doubt ("For God has not given us a spirit of timidity, but of power and love and discipline" 2 Timothy 1:7), and (4) that God will guard all of our hearts "for it is the wellspring of life" (Proverbs 4:23). It has been really hard for me lately, but God has been faithful. My boyfriend and I are praying for God's will, even if it is for us to be apart. Thank you all for your prayers. Reply »
Started by Stephanie Jan 8
When I think of the men in my life, I don't have a list of potential husbands - My mind immediately goes to my Dad and two younger brothers (both in their early 20s). These are the men who protect me, encourage me, laugh with me, tease me - (they are great at that), shop with me (especially if I buy them food), hug me, and generally shower me with love. What are some ways that I can be praying for them? Here is a short list that I can think of... Dad - >His relationships - with God, my mom, co-workers, friends >Temptations - that God will keep him strong >Work - that the stress level will be manageable, and that he will be able to use his work to glorify God (you don't have to work in "ministry" to have your work be a ministry) >Wisdom - that God will continue to give him wisdom in his leadership of our family Brothers - >Relationship with God >Friendships - that they will make and maintain friendships which glorify God and are and encouragement to them. >Future girlfriends/wives- that God will protect my brothers from temptation and keep their hearts, minds, and bodies pure, that my brothers will always treat women with respect, that their future wives are growing in their relationships with God, and that I can have wisdom in advising them about relationships (they really do come to me for advice - though I have little experience) Do you have any ideas? What are some specific ways you pray for your dad and/or brothers? It strikes me that if I begin making a habit of praying boldly for these men in my life now, I will be in the habit already whan God brings a husband into my life. Reply »
Started by Candice Watters Nov 19 2007
Ever feel frustrated that you don't know any guys who are marriage material? Maybe it's a matter of perspective. Carolyn McCulley's "Faith for the Man He'll Become" is probably the best I've read on this subject. She writes, If you've had numerous godly male role models in your life — your father, pastor, boss, family friend, uncle, small group leader — you may already have a mental picture based on the qualities you appreciate in these men. You may see some of the husbands and fathers in your church and think to yourself that you'd like to marry a man just like them. Those are great aspirations to have! But first you may need to talk to their wives. Why? Because these women didn't marry the husbands they have today. Typically, they married less seasoned men. Thanks to the Holy Spirit's refinements over time, as well as the feminine counsel, influence, and encouragement of these wives, their husbands are different some 20-plus years down the line. Now take a look at the young men you know. Can you see them with eyes of faith? Like trees in springtime with an impressionistic haze of buds, the potential for growth is strongly evident but it's not yet fully realized. It's an article full of encouragement and practical help. You can read the rest here. Reply »
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